School holidays - how do working mums cope

I have a business - yes that is obvious, I am a control freak and need everything to be done on time and as perfect as possible, so the question is how do I look after 3 kids over the summer holidays and work, even when we are away in France for 3 weeks.

The answer is I get stressed, but I always do all my work even if it means that I stay up till midnight working. I work like a mad woman, take business phone calls at the zoo, constantly check my iPhone for emails.

So how do I change this. I want to have one hour at least every evening to relax, work for 2 hours every morning 8 - 10am preferably, then go out for the day and work from 4 - 6pm, will it work. My clients always are shocked at how quickly they get responses, so maybe I just respond 2-3 hours later.








So my mission is to ignore the rain and fulfil as many of the 50 things to do before you are 11 3/4 by the National Trust as possible, we have so many beautiful national trust places near to us in Cheshire as well.








Other inspiration I have found when trawling pinterest. See my board here, I am adding to it all the time

Birth announcement tips

Who do I send birth announcement cards to?
Anyone and everyone! Some people just send to close friends and family but others send to 100 plus, remember it is one of the most exciting moments of your life, so share the excitement with all.
Often grandparents would like to send some out as well, so ask them if they would like copies.
A rule of thumb is send them out to everyone you feel will share your excitement.

When should I send birth announcement cards out?
Send them as soon as possible after the baby is born. Before the birth you can select a design, decide on your wording, list of recipients and if you want to be really prepared you can buy your cards in advance and I can send you the envelopes to write out the addresses beforehand, we can then get the right card to match your photo after the birth – we just need to keep to the same envelope size!
If you are unable to send them out within a few weeks, why not combine a birth announcement with a thank you card for all those wonderful presents.

What do I include on the birth announcement?
Have a look at our cards for inspiration.
Include the babies first and middle name or their full name.
Birth Statistics, you can include birth date, weight, length, and time/place of birth.
Family details, include parents' and other family members' names.

What if my baby has a low or high birth weight?
If you feel that the birth weight is too high or low feel free to omit it from the card, you can always add something else instead, for example thank you for the gifts. My children had very high birth weights and I new this would be the focus so I omitted them from my birth announcements and just told people when they asked.

What if I am not married to my partner?
It is absolutely fine to either use your forenames only for all, or just the babies surname. Or use both surnames, as most of your friends will know that you are not married.

Birth announcement card with a photograph or not?
Completely up to you, my orders are probably 75% photos and 25% no photos, they both take the same amount of time to process.
Don’t put yourself under too much pressure to get the best photo, you could even send a photo thank you card out a few weeks after the birth.
Both ways are widely accepted.

Do I need to write a handwritten message on each announcement?
You can but your friends and family will totally understand if you don’t, they will appreciate how busy a time you are having.

I love paper

I love everything paper related as you must know, and have seen these craft projects via pinterest, if you have not been on pinterest yet you must - my link is http://pinterest.com/cococards/.

These wreaths were from http://www.thenester.com/2011/09/you-made-a-wreath-out-of-what-a-linky-party.html.

Princess party or Pirate party

It is so hard to choose a theme for your childs birthday party, I always want to get the balance between what the child wants and tackiness.

So for girls birthday party themes - 

So my daughter may want a Hannah Montana party but I want .......

A sweet traditional girly party theme, with no american TV influence (sorry everyone from the US). Full of wands, stunning party dresses, lots of cakes, personalised party bags.

Then for the boys...

My son loves Ben 10, but what can I say I don't! Am I a horrible mother, I don't think so, as my children have always loved their parties, most of them at home.

So....

What about a pirate themed party, loads of games around this theme.

Princess and pirate party photos all courtesy of Hostess with the Mostess.

All my invites can be seen here

Hollywood glamour 40th birthday

My friend Jenny asked me to design a card for her 40th in black and gold for a Hollywood glamour themed 40th birthday party, I put together a few ideas for digital printing, but gold never looks quite right when it is digitally printed, so we decided to go for gold foil on black GF smith paper, oh how gorgeous did they look.







An amazing night was had by all and everyone looked stunning. Lots of champagne and posh frocks!

Personal stationery - why I love it

I have just designed a couple of notelet, correspondence cards for myself and for a present for my friend.  The cockerel has been painted by my friend Allie Pottinger, who is an excellent watercolour artist, exhibiting this week in Cheshire.








I have used these as correspondence cards, but they can be used as thank you's, birthday invites , anything really. I have chosen the rich dark blue surround, but they can be left plain.

I am also having printed some linings to match, I just can not wait to send them out.
The hand lined envelopes are fabulous, such a luxurious extra.

For a softer version I have also designed and printed the magnolia note card, again it can be used as a correspondence card, birth day invite anything really. I also lined an envelope to match, I am sending these as a present for my friends 40th, she is the lady who has everything, so it is a perfect 40th birthday present I hope. Watercolour by Allie Pottinger again - how did you guess.

See all my notecards and stationery - here

Magnolia notecard front

Luxury a hand lined envelope to match

Magnolia notecard reverse

Fur, feather and flora , a watercolour exhibition

My colleague and friend Allie Pottinger is having an exhibition next week at Deans Rough Farm, Lower Withington, Cheshire. A sneek preview below:

The exhibition runs from Friday till Sunday, pop along as there are 41 paintings to see.

If you like Allie's drawings, please look at her website. www.alliepottinger.com.